They say that you never really stop loving someone and I must agree with them. Love, such a marvelous yet fragile feeling. If the love you’re carrying is genuine, there’s no way it will vanish, ever. There are so many types of love out there: immature, aggressive, sweet, sour and we all get to experience at least 2 or 3 types of love in this life, but no matter how hard we try to move on and we actually succeed moving on from a breakup or a heartbreak, love will never die. Love isn’t awful, love doesn’t mean to break you, turn your heart into a cold stone, love is amazing. You shouldn’t blame your feelings for being fooled by a guy or a girl. It’s people that change you, that break you. Love isn’t toxic, but humans are.
They say you never really stop loving someone, you just try to learn how to live without them and I must agree with them. I’ve taken my time and I came to realize that my feelings were, are, pure. I will never really stop loving someone, but I’m learning how to live without them. I also learned how to truly love myself and enjoy my own company and it’s a great feeling of satisfaction, increased self-esteem. Running from your true self, from your true feelings won’t change a thing, but embracing them will grant you a different type of joy: I’m happy and I’m used to it– should be something that everyone can say easily.
I began to realize we’re still growing, whether we’re 15, 27, 38 or 60. There’s a lot to see, a lot to hear, a lot to smell, a lot to eat, a lot to feel. Regardless what you choose to do with your life, you’ll never stop learning; you’ll keep growing and growing and therefore learning more and more about what’s surrounding you: you will learn from others, but also from yourself- listen carefully to what your tiny inner voice is telling you.
Love, the greatest feeling of them all, and hate, the most baleful one: the opposites of a spectrum. Love means no harm and yet it wouldn’t exist without hate. Those people whose love isn’t genuine replace it with hate, hurting the ones they used to „care” about. So tell me, an innocent feeling like love is the one that caused you so much damage? Or was it hate that imprisoned your heart when it was the most vulnerable? People are toxic if they can’t vibe properly and some of them are capable of using hate to turn the other ones against love, making them feel both unloved and unloveable.